My Child Has Been Accused of Sexual Assault
- Salhan Dharna
- Aug 4
- 3 min read

Finding out that your child has been accused of a sexual offence can be extremely distressing. These allegations are treated very seriously by the police and courts, and the process can move quickly. Understanding what to expect and how to respond is essential to protecting your child’s rights and supporting them appropriately.
What Happens at the Start
When an allegation is made, the police may invite your child to attend a voluntary interview or may arrest them, depending on the circumstances and seriousness of the allegation. Although a voluntary interview may seem less formal, it is still conducted under caution and forms part of a criminal investigation.
In either situation, your child has the right to legal advice and should not be questioned without a solicitor present. As a parent, you will usually be informed and may be asked to attend the police station. The police may also impose conditions, particularly where contact with another young person is involved.
It is important to remain calm and avoid making decisions without legal advice at this stage. How the situation is handled early on can affect how the case develops.
The Role of the Appropriate Adult
If your child is under 18, an appropriate adult must be present during police procedures. This is often a parent or guardian, although in some cases it may be a trained professional if required.
The role of the appropriate adult is to support your child, ensure they understand what is happening, and confirm that the police are acting fairly. They can raise concerns if something is unclear or appears inappropriate.
However, the appropriate adult does not provide legal advice or answer questions on your child’s behalf. That responsibility lies with the solicitor, whose guidance should be followed at all times.
The Police Investigation
Investigations involving sexual allegations are often detailed and sensitive. The police may gather statements from the complainant and witnesses, review digital communications, and examine devices such as mobile phones, laptops, and social media accounts.
Messages, images, and online activity are frequently key evidence. Devices may be retained for examination, which can take time, meaning investigations can be lengthy. Your child may be released on bail or released under investigation while enquiries continue.
It is essential that your child does not discuss the allegation with anyone other than their solicitor. This includes friends, school contacts, or anyone connected to the situation. They should also avoid posting about the matter online.
Possible Outcomes
At the end of the investigation, several outcomes are possible. The police may take no further action if there is insufficient evidence. In some cases, involving young people, a youth caution, youth conditional caution, or another out of court disposal may be considered.
If the evidence is considered sufficient, the case may be referred to the Crown Prosecution Service for a charging decision. If your child is charged, the case will usually proceed through the youth court, although more serious matters may be sent to the Crown Court.
The outcome will depend on factors such as the evidence available, the nature of the allegation, and the circumstances of those involved.
Supporting Your Child Through the Process
This is a challenging time for both you and your child. It is important to provide reassurance while avoiding detailed discussions about the allegation that could influence their account.
Your role is to offer support and stability, while ensuring your child follows the advice of their solicitor. Maintaining normal routines where possible can help reduce stress during what may be a lengthy process.
You should also ensure that any conditions set by the police are strictly followed, including restrictions on contact or movement.
Why Early Legal Advice Is Important
Early legal advice is essential in cases of this nature. A solicitor will guide your child through each stage, ensure that procedures are followed correctly, and advise on how best to respond to the allegation.
They can also engage with the police, obtain information about the case, and identify any issues or weaknesses in the evidence. Careful handling from the outset can have a significant impact on how the case progresses and is ultimately resolved.
Why Choose Salhan Dharna Law
At Salhan Dharna Law, we have extensive experience supporting families in sensitive and complex criminal cases. We provide clear, practical advice and remain up to date with developments in criminal law to ensure your child’s rights are fully protected.
For expert legal assistance, contact Salhan Dharna Law today on 0116 436 1224 or email enquiries@salhandharna.co.uk.


